So, lets sort this all out. I mean that is what this is all about isn't it? The outside is whorling around me; do this, buy that, you've gotta have that, and on and on and on. And my job as a husband and a father, is to make some sense out of it all! It's crazy, just mind boggling at certain times to make certain that what I am doing, plotting my own course through life is correct. Following the crowd is not an option, it just holds no answers for me. I see the error of other paths, and it'...